I feel the same way....... I play a pusher and when i hit an amazingly fast shot, he just pushes it back over where im not..... i hate that... so when im playing a person i know can hit a fast shot back, i try not to hit hard, but to place the ball... When i play him i try hitting corner to corner rather than power.... i hope this helps, if not i wouldnt be surprised... im not really the proffesional coach....
